Decisions are often influenced by personal needs and desires, sometimes leading to confusion between one's true desires and external expectations. It is crucial to distinguish between what one genuinely wants and what they feel they should want, based on societal or familial norms. By reflecting on personal beliefs, needs, and preferences, individuals can realign their decisions with their authentic selves, rather than external pressures. The root of many conflicts in relationships, as per the Kirvanaget concept, lies in the feeling of inadequacy in the other person. Being authentic and true to oneself can help resolve conflicts and foster understanding in relationships.

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