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How To Get People To Like You More, Create Connection, & Develop Personal Confidence Ft. Vanessa Van Edwards

The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast

ADVICE

Projecting Confidence to Attract Others

  • 💪 Project an aura of confidence to draw people in. Instead of initiating conversations, focus on emanating an inviting energy that encourages others to approach you.
  • 🙋‍♀️ Use body language cues to indicate approachability. Angle your toes towards the room, not just the person you're speaking with, to signal openness.
  • 🦶 Notice where others point their feet. This subconscious behavior can reveal who they are interested in or who the "boss" is in a room. "It's like my favorite game [...] where we try to look and see because usually people's toes are pointed towards the boss."
  • 🌟 Recognize and trust your intuition. Our brains are "super cue readers," picking up on subtle signals that we often ignore. "We all have this amazing intuition on these cues [...] our brain is a super cute reader."
  • 🗣️ Learn to name these cues to strengthen your intuition and understand social dynamics. "If you know how to name them, you begin to listen to your tuition."

Key Takeaway: Confidence is a magnet; let it draw people to you.

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