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7 Symptoms Of Self-Sabotage

THE ED MYLETT SHOW

ADVICE

Stop Comparing: The Thief of Joy

  • 🙅 Avoid comparing yourself to others, especially on social media, where people present filtered versions of their lives: "They've taken 900 pictures to post that one, then they threw a filter on it."
  • 🙅 Don't compare your present circumstances to a romanticized past or a different relationship: "You compare your current relationship with someone to the exact same relationship you had with them except when it started."
  • 🙅 Comparing yourself to others robs you of joy and sabotages your happiness.
  • 🙅 People who self-sabotage tend to focus on the past, what they lack, and make comparisons.
  • ✅ Focus on your own journey and appreciate your present.
  • ✅ Remember that everyone has struggles, even if they don't show them publicly.

Key Takeaway: Comparison is the thief of joy. Embrace your reality and stop comparing yourself to others or to a different point in your life.

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