Challenges of Raising Kids in an Instant Gratification Society

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Dr. Becky Kennedy: Protocols for Excellent Parenting & Improving Relationships of All Kinds

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Challenges of Raising Kids in an Instant Gratification Society

Parents today have a lower tolerance for their kids' tantrums due to the convenience in their lives and the instant gratification culture. Children are exposed to more gratification than ever before, shaping their expectations and what feels good. The fear lies in this altered circuitry of expectations in children. It is crucial to introduce frustration into children's lives early on in order to build their tolerance levels.

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In this episode, my guest is Dr. Becky Kennedy, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist, bestselling author, and founder of Good Inside, an education platform for parents and parents-to-be. We discuss actionable protocols for raising resilient, emotionally healthy kids and effective alternatives to typical forms of reward and punishment that instead teach children valuable skills and strengthen the parent-child bond. These protocols also apply to other types of relationships: professional, romantic, friendships, siblings, etc.

We explain how to respond to emotional outbursts, rudeness, and entitlement, repair fractured relationships, build self-confidence, and improve interpersonal connections with empathy while maintaining healthy boundaries.

We also discuss how to effectively communicate with children and adults with ADHD, anxiety, learning challenges, or with “deeply feeling” individuals.

The conversation is broadly applicable to all types of social interactions and bonds. By the end of the episode, you will have learned simple yet powerful tools to build healthy relationships with kids, teens, adults, and oneself.

For show notes, including referenced articles and additional resources, please visit hubermanlab.com.