Creating a Deep Life: Recognizing the Common Trap

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The key question for many individuals today is how to create a deep life lived purposefully and remarkably. More people are actively pursuing this, especially in the pandemic and post-pandemic era. However, there are common traps when striving for a deep life. The most prevalent trap is undertaking a life that is intentional, purposeful, and remarkable but getting it wrong due to distractions and lack of control. This trap leads to feelings of monotony, nihilism, and being constantly distracted. To avoid this trap, individuals need to focus on intentional living, prioritizing what matters to them and eliminating distractions. By recognizing and sidestepping this common trap, individuals can successfully cultivate a deep and purposeful life.

The desire to cultivate a more intentional and remarkable existence – what we call “the deep life” – is universal. In today’s episode, Cal talks about one of the most common traps in this pursuit: hoping that the achievement of a singular grand goal will make all parts of your life better. Cal discusses the problems with the grand goal approach and argues why the more systematic lifestyle-centric mindset will not only produce better results, but end up leading to remarkable opportunities anyway. He then takes questions and calls from readers and reviews the five books he read in May.

Below are the questions covered in today's episode (with their timestamps). Get your questions answered by Cal! Here’s the link: bit.ly/3U3sTvo

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Deep Dive: How to create a deep life [9:55]

- Is it too late to start living deep at the age of 27? [31:29]
- Is it possible to cultivate a deep life at a job that requires full attention? [36:05]
- How come there are different Deep Life Stacks? [38:57]
- How do I cultivate a deep life with small children? [46:40]
- Do I need to “limit my missions” if I have a standard day job? [54:40]
- CALL: Keeping focus after having children [58:28]

CASE STUDY: Finding books to help cultivate a deep life [1:12:18]

FINAL SEGMENT: The 5 Books Cal Read in May 2024 [1:22:47]

Science and Human Values (J. Bronowski)
The Hot Zone (Richard Preston)
Extinction (Douglas Preston)
When the Shooting Stops…the Cutting Begins (Ralph Rosenbaum and Robert Karen)
The Great Partnership (Jonathan Sacks)

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Buy Cal’s latest book, “Slow Productivity” at calnewport.com/slow
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