Tips for getting into the feel of the date

To shift from a checklist mentality to being more present on a date, focus on a reflective practice called the 'post date eight.' This involves answering specific questions after the date, such as whether you felt curious about the other person and what aspects of yourself they revealed. This introspection encourages you to engage more deeply during the date and enhances your overall experience. Similar to the benefits of gratitude journals, this method trains your mind to seek out positive feelings and connections, moving away from a purely evaluative approach. By regularly engaging in this reflective process, you cultivate a more mindful and fulfilling dating experience.