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Disrupting the Underfunctioning/Overfunctioning Dynamic

Reimagining Love

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Change Happens in a Couple System

It's an opportunity for your partner to recognize that you are making an effort to change a pattern. Change happens in a couple system when, in this example, the over functioning person, let's go like, they change their move. But what these guys found in their research is the change doesn't really cement until and unless the other person here, the under functioning partner, notices it. Like loop has to get complete. It's not just my change, it's my change that i do.

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