236. How to make hard decisions
The Psychology of your 20s
Trust Yourself to Decide
In making difficult decisions, traditional strategies like pro-con lists and seeking advice can be helpful but are not always sufficient. Ultimately, individuals possess an innate understanding of their desires and choices, often clouded by self-doubt, fear, and societal expectations. For instance, when contemplating the end of a long-term relationship, one may recognize, deep down, the desire to leave despite fear of loneliness or societal judgment. The act of questioning often reveals a pre-existing answer within, indicating that true clarity comes from trusting one's instincts rather than relying solely on rational analyses or external opinions.
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