The concept of finding a soulmate who can fulfill all of one's needs at all times is dismantled, as it is acknowledged that there will be periods in a relationship where some needs may be incompatible or unfulfilled due to life circumstances. It is considered healthy for partners to recognize that they cannot always meet each other's needs, and that facing and resolving difficulties together can strengthen the relationship. The analogy of preparing for a hurricane is used to illustrate how couples who work together to overcome challenges emerge with a stronger relationship. The key is to approach problems as a team, recognizing that collaboration in finding solutions can lead to growth and resilience in the relationship.
What makes some couples thrive for decades while others fizzle out? Psychotherapist and bestselling author Amy Morin reveals the habits that erode relationships and the tools needed to build resilient joy in her latest book, 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do. Drawing on research and years of counseling experience, Amy shares how small changes can transform even the most challenged partnerships.
Learn how to reconnect with your partner's best self - and your own. Discover why arranged marriages often get happier over time, while many romantic relationships decline. Healthy love takes work, but it's possible. If you've ever felt disconnected from the magic that first drew you together, this conversation is for you. Amy provides honest wisdom and gentle guidance for crafting enduringly satisfying long-term relationships.
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