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Fucking Feelings: The Attunement Model of Consent
Fucking Cancelled
Long-term relationships have two fundamental drives: the drive for security and the drive for mystery and excitement. The quest for safety and security can diminish the erotic spark in a relationship by eliminating the sense of mystery and unknown. However, it's essential to remember that it's impossible to fully know one's partner and that they will always be a mystery. This recognition of the partner's otherness and their inaccessible inner world is crucial for maintaining the erotic spark in a long-term relationship. Without this sense of mystery and differentiation, the relationship can become enmeshed and lose its vitality.
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