AI-powered
podcast player
Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features
2min snip
Dr Emily - Friendship 4 Eva
The Imperfects
The Beautiful Mess Effect: How Being Yourself Makes People Like You More
Being at events with competitive comedians can make you feel the need to get noticed, but having a friend who allows you to be yourself is valuable. Our expectations of friendship often focus on being cool, smart, or funny, but research suggests it's actually about how you make others feel. The 'beautiful mess effect' shows that likability and friendship development are determined by how you make others feel. It's not about being cool or funny, but about making others feel good.
00:00
Transcript
Episode notes
Get the Snipd
podcast app
Unlock the knowledge in podcasts with the podcast player of the future.
AI-powered
Discover
highlights
Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode
Save any
moment
Hear something you like? Tap your headphones to save it with AI-generated key takeaways
Share
& Export
Send highlights to Twitter, WhatsApp or export them to Notion, Readwise & more
AI-powered
podcast player
Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features
Discover
highlights
Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode