Don't live with fakely competent or fake warmth

Acknowledge and address issues with colleagues openly and honestly. Don't ignore problems caused by uncooperative team members. If someone in your life is not warm or competent, take action by setting boundaries, seeking help, or removing them from your life. Be authentic and don't settle for fake competence or warmth. Constantly seek to learn new social cues that can improve relationships. Embrace feedback and be open to making adjustments for personal growth.