The speaker discusses how they perceive the listener to have a sense of pride in taking on extreme stress and chaos. They also recognize that the listener's ability to endure such stress is a valuable asset that leads to success. However, they point out that the listener's subconscious protocol of seeking immediate relief from stress may hinder them from experiencing the greater rewards of enduring stress. The speaker suggests that training the subconscious to endure stress can lead to even greater payoff in the long run.