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Esther Perel: How to Bring The Spark Back in a Relationship.

Jillian on Love

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Embrace Curiosity Over Familiarity

Love and desire are interconnected yet often conflict, with love centered around 'having' and desire focused on 'wanting.' Love flourishes through mutual understanding and reciprocity, while desire thrives on mystery and novelty. True familiarity can sometimes mask the inherent mystery of a partner. Rather than allowing the illusion of safety to lead to anxiety about changes or unexpected traits in a partner, embracing curiosity can foster deeper connections and understanding. This appreciation for the unknown can transform relationships, inviting ongoing discovery and dialogue.

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