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Navigating Quarter-Life Crisis: Unpacking the Psychology of Your 20s - Jemma Sbeghen

Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal

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The Different Types of Energizing Relationship Behaviors

The key difference between energizing relationships and draining relationships lies in the type of response given when someone shares news. There are four different ways to respond: active constructive, passive constructive, passive destructive, and active destructive. The most energizing response is active constructive, where one shows genuine interest and encourages the person to share more. Passive constructive responses are neutral at best, while passive destructive responses focus on one's own achievements. Active destructive responses are unhelpful and dismissive. Research shows that people who engage in active constructive responses are seen as more energizing, charismatic, and enjoyable to be around.

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