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How to Resolve Conflict in Relationships: A Conversation with Esther Perel

Open to Debate

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Kitchen Sinking and Enlightened Self-Interest in Relationships

Kitchen sinking in relationships refers to bringing up past issues and grievances during a current discussion, making it impossible to tackle any single problem effectively. On the other hand, enlightened self-interest in relationships involves considering the impact of one's words on the relationship as a whole, prioritizing the connection and shared goals over personal satisfaction or venting. Resolving conflicts in relationships requires the ability to argue while still preserving the relationship, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a higher purpose beyond individual desires.

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