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Avoidant Partners Making Destructive Decisions
When avoidant partners make abrupt decisions without communication or boundaries, it is a destructive behavior that stems from seeking safety and coping with anxiety. They often use excuses like being busy or in a dark place to avoid difficult conversations due to a lack of communication skills. This unilateral decision-making can lead to repetitive cycles of leaving and returning, causing both partners to feel helpless and trapped in a torturous, addictive pattern.