The Sabrina Zohar Show 64: Avoidant attachment, how it shows up in dating and understanding why Avoidants retreat with Ken Reid!
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Mar 12, 2024 Exploring avoidant attachment in dating with therapist Ken Reid, understanding retreat triggers in relationships. Differentiating avoidant behavior from rudeness, providing space for individuals with avoidant attachment. Discussing challenges of intimacy and commitment for avoidants, delving into the dynamics of avoidant and narcissistic traits in relationships. Strategies for navigating avoidant behavior, personal growth, and building healthier connections
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Avoidant Attachment Is A Spectrum
- Avoidant attachment is a spectrum where people fear intimacy and catastrophize future commitment scenarios.
- Many avoidants love their partner yet panic internally and withdraw to cope with overwhelming emotions.
When Avoidant Behavior Becomes Exploitative
- Severe avoidant behavior can overlap with narcissistic traits like manipulation and gaslighting.
- Chronic hot-and-cold cycles plus exploitative patterns indicate deeper personality and attachment dysfunction.
Choose Avoidants Who Take Accountability
- Look for humility and the ability to apologize as signs an avoidant can change and collaborate.
- Prioritize partners who involve you in understanding their triggers and sustain intimacy work.