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The "More" Kids

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

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Parenting is about producing, not reproducing

Parenting is not about replicating oneself but about producing a unique individual. The concept of reproduction is a fantasy rooted in the desire for immortality. Andrew Solomon highlights the distinction between reproduction and production in his book 'Far From the Tree'. He emphasizes that children are not replicas but individuals, strangers we are forever cast into a relationship with. The struggle for parents often lies in letting go of the fantasy that their children will embody the best versions of themselves. This misconception can hinder the process of truly getting to know and understand their child, as it is challenging to detach from one's ego and perception in the world.

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