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10 Philosophy-Inspired Challenges for Becoming a Better and Happier Man

The Art of Manliness

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Banana walk: Embrace Embarrassment to Build Confidence

Engaging in activities that induce slight discomfort can significantly improve resilience and self-confidence. The 'banana walk' is a practical exercise inspired by the cynics and modern therapy approaches, particularly Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT). This exercise involves walking in a public space while carrying a banana on a string, intentionally inviting stares and feelings of embarrassment. By facing these uncomfortable situations, individuals can challenge and reframe their internal dialogues about embarrassment. Repeatedly performing such acts helps to cultivate a greater sense of comfort in one's own skin and mitigates the worry about societal judgment. The practice serves as a reminder of the importance of embracing moments of absurdity as a pathway to personal growth and improved mental resilience.

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