How to Pick the Right People for You

Nice guys often choose partners who are unable to meet their needs because they are more comfortable with familiar and uncomfortable situations. They try to fix their partners by choosing women with issues like depression, past abuse, or anger problems, hoping to make them better. However, these partners are often unable to meet their needs because they are dealing with their own problems. To find fulfilling relationships, nice guys need to choose partners who are capable of meeting their needs and who derive pleasure from doing so.