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#1 Boundaries w/ Terri Cole | How Putting Your Needs First Serves Others Best
What Drives You with Kevin Miller
Selfishness, responsibility, and codependency
The speaker discusses how selfishness plays a role in wanting others to be happy so that they can feel better themselves. They mention taking responsibility in areas where it is not needed, emphasizing the importance of allowing others to be the heroes of their own lives. The speaker reflects on their identity tied to being a hero and seeking internal approval rather than altruism. They delve into disordered boundaries, high-functioning codependency, and the detrimental effects of being overly invested in others' feelings, outcomes, decisions, and relationships at the expense of one's internal peace.
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