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Deep Dive 008: Dr. Robert Glover (authenticity, attraction, and nice guy syndrome)

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The Fallacy of Seeking Love Externally

The belief that love should be sought externally is a prevalent misconception leading to significant human suffering. Individuals often seek love from others, assuming that they will be loved simply for who they are. However, the speaker argues that love should not be sought externally, as external sources of love are inconsistent and can easily be disrupted. This belief is deeply embedded in societal norms where women are taught to get love from men, and vice versa, causing individuals to constantly search for love outside of themselves, leading to challenges and difficulties.

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