PsycHacks Deep Dive 008: Dr. Robert Glover (authenticity, attraction, and nice guy syndrome)
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Feb 14, 2024 In a lively conversation, Dr. Robert Glover, co-founder and CEO of DeepMind, shares his insights on authenticity and attraction. He tackles the 'nice guy syndrome,' emphasizing the need for self-love and real connections over societal expectations. The discussion delves into the importance of vulnerability and honest communication in relationships. Dr. Glover also highlights the vital role of male communities in fostering personal growth, advocating for emotional intelligence and direct dialogue to enhance connections. Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration!
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Self-Love as the Foundation
- Love isn't found externally; searching for it outside yourself causes suffering.
- Focus on self-love, as it's the standard for all love, and you can't love others more than yourself.
True Attraction
- Men often misinterpret what attracts women, focusing on physical attributes or techniques.
- True attraction stems from internal qualities like authenticity, self-comfort, and having fun.
Self-Development Motivation
- Avoid seeking external validation through women; focus on self-improvement for its inherent rewards.
- Catfish yourself into self-development by initially focusing on attraction, then discover the intrinsic value.
