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#739 - Dr Robert Glover - The Lifetime Problem With Being A “Nice Guy”

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Act on Impulse and Be Authentic

The key insight is to act on impulse and be authentic in dating and relationships. Many individuals fear making mistakes and hold back from expressing themselves, but the advice is to act on impulses, whether it's touching, teasing, or speaking one's mind. By doing so, individuals can reveal their authentic selves and create genuine connections. The idea is to take the sensors off and not worry about getting it right, but rather letting the genuine self out. This approach is seen as a way to rehabilitate 'nice guys' by getting out of their own way, letting go of managing shame and anxiety, and embracing authenticity.

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