Embrace the Stages of Love

Human attraction is influenced by both familiar chaos from upbringing and ideals shaped by cultural narratives. Those with chaotic backgrounds may find excitement in relationships that echo their past instability, forming trauma bonds. Conversely, individuals from nurturing environments often pursue a stimulating enchantment, influenced by romantic fantasies from media. Research indicates that the initial thrill of romantic love, characterized by a dopamine surge, typically lasts between eight and 18 months before transitioning to a more stable, companionate love, governed by oxytocin and vasopressin, which fosters appreciation for the present moment.

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