The more you try to fix a problem, the worse it gets. It's because what you're reinforcing for your kid is tempera. Tantrum gets you the game. resisting cravings and then giving in can sometimes teach our brain that if i really want this thing, i just need to hit him with a level ten craving. This is not staying strong, my friend. Tis actually breeding weakness. I'm only able to mentally stay strong in these situations when i have some kind of distraction. And we sort of see this in people who struggle to be sober, is that the cravings seem to be getting worse and worse and worse overtime the more that they fight themYou'll get