In times of changing relationships, it is common to feel anger and a sense of abandonment. It's crucial to resist the urge to lash out and instead approach the situation rationally. Distance and life changes do not always signify the end of a friendship but rather a period of adjustment. Rushing to cut someone off or react in anger may harm the relationship irreversibly. It's essential to communicate openly, give time for adjustment, and show understanding towards both parties. If the divide is insurmountable despite efforts, part ways with kindness and grace, acknowledging the changes while leaving the door open for future reconnection.
This week on the show we deep dive into why we outgrow our friendships as we enter our 20’s. We often have a romanticised idea that friendships last a lifetime, but during this decade we realise that it’s a lot more nuanced. We explore the main factors behind the friendship “fizzle”, why it’s a normal part of growing up, how we can handle the emotions that come along with and learn to value solitude and be selective when it comes to our friendships. Listen now!
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