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Exploring Defensive Behaviors and Needs in Relationships
In relationships, individuals with defensive behaviors may display anger, defensiveness, or emotional detachment when vulnerable spots are poked. Some individuals project a cool aloofness, displaying a lack of need for defense mechanisms. The 'gladiator' archetype recognizes their needs but tends to be self-focused, not collaborative, and may come across as aggressive or cutthroat, preferring to achieve goals independently. These individuals often struggle with trusting relationships and can be dragged into therapy during crises when their relational needs are not being met, despite thinking otherwise.