
Dr. Sarah Schewitz: How Your Childhood Wounds Are Affecting Your Relationships
Mayim Bialik's Breakdown
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Criticism, Defensiveness, Stonewalling and Contempt
Criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, and contempt are the four destructive communication patterns in relationships. Using words like 'always' or 'never' and making blanket statements are forms of criticism. Defensiveness involves throwing up roadblocks and not taking responsibility. The antidote to defensiveness is seeking responsibility. Stonewalling is shutting down and not showing any signs of listening. Contempt, the most damaging pattern, involves name-calling and superiority. These patterns should be avoided for healthier communication.
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