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#553: Jessica Lahey on Parenting, Desirable Difficulties, The Gift of Failure, Self-Efficacy, and The Addiction Inoculation

The Tim Ferriss Show

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Why Do We Do Too Much For Kids?

When we do too much for kids, we undermine their long term motivation to stay involved in the things we want them to do. We also tend to give them extrinsic motivators, you know, whether it's money for grades or the grades themselves. And yet, if we want our kids to not want to learn math, the quickest way to do that is to pay them for their math grades. So there's that motivation issue. But then the other problem is this, there's this woman who has done work on the impact of over parenting and being overly directive,. Not just on motivation. It's really beautifully written about a book d make it stick, from harvard university press

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