People often identify with certain roles in their life stories such as being a fighter, healer, scholar, or a teacher. By listening to others' stories and understanding the role they play, we can gain insights into their character and experiences. Personal narratives are powerful tools to connect with others on a deeper level compared to paradigmatic modes of thinking like arguments or presentations. Jerome Bruner highlights the distinction between paradigmatic and narrative modes, suggesting that storytelling is essential for understanding individuals and forming meaningful connections.