The Next Big Idea HOW TO KNOW A PERSON: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply (with David Brooks)
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Nov 2, 2023 
David Brooks, acclaimed author and New York Times columnist, discusses mastering the social skills of understanding and respecting others to make better decisions, enhance creativity, and repair social fabric. Topics include the significance of daily interactions, humanizing others, practical tips for great conversations, the power of storytelling, AI limitations, and finding deep connections in a community.
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Morality Is Attentive Seeing
- Morality is about how we pay attention to others, not abstract principles.
- Treating people with patience and curiosity is the fundamental moral act.
Why We're Bad at Reading People
- We struggle to read others accurately due to egotism, anxiety, and narrow viewpoints.
- Most people are more focused on expressing themselves than truly understanding others.
Power of Reverent Attention
- Pastor Jimmy Dorell greeted a 93-year-old woman with exuberant affection, instantly transforming her demeanor.
- His reverent attention made her feel deeply seen and cherished.