The Importance of Belonging and Motivation in Youth

Belonging is a fundamental human need, and its understanding can significantly impact young people's motivation and acceptance within groups. Traditional methods, such as superficial messaging like stickers or anti-bullying campaigns, fail to authentically foster a sense of belonging. True belonging requires individuals to feel they have added value to a group, which is achieved through 'earned prestige.' This concept reflects the necessity of demonstrating competency, rather than simply claiming it. Young people often associate their sense of belonging with their perceived competence. Failures or challenges in new environments can lead them to question their place, reinforcing feelings of exclusion. However, reframing these challenges as normal and indicative of growth can help them develop a more positive narrative about their experiences. Encouraging young individuals to recognize that struggling is part of their journey toward belonging can lead to improved emotional wellbeing and academic performance. Practical steps, such as seeking support or engaging in activities, can enhance their skills over time, leading to a sense of belonging and reduced achievement gaps in educational settings. Experimental findings confirm that this storytelling approach can lower stress levels, improve health, and promote better grades, highlighting the importance of guiding young people to construct a narrative that fosters both motivation and a sense of belonging.