Red Flags To Avoid In Relationships & How To Find Real Love w/ Esther Perel EP 1277
The School of Greatness
Relationships Are Crafted, Not Destined
Relationships are a deliberate choice made at a specific moment, where one seeks to cultivate the strongest possible bond with another person. Various factors, including timing, influence this connection, making the idea of a 'soulmate' more of a metaphorical representation of the quality of the experience rather than a singular destined individual. Moreover, unconditional love is a myth; relationships inherently involve ambivalence, with partners appreciating certain qualities while being critical of others. Acknowledging that feelings fluctuate between deep attachment and occasional desire for space is crucial. Instead of chasing happiness as an ultimate goal—which often leads to dissatisfaction—focus on pursuing integrity, depth, joy, aliveness, connection, and growth for a more fulfilling relationship experience.
