Every individual's existence demands recognition from others, influencing their identities through daily interactions. The power lies in affirming or challenging these identities, thereby opening or denying possibilities for being. This dynamic explains the intensity of certain conflicts; issues that threaten core self-understandings evoke strong emotional responses. Resistance to change—such as differing views on marriage equality or immigration—stems from the perception that these challenges undermine personal and relational identities. It illustrates the profound interdependence of individual identities, revealing that individuals are not isolated but linked within a collective. The implications of these connections manifest in heightened reactions, emphasizing that when personal definitions of identity are confronted, the stakes rise significantly, often resulting in conflict.
If you take away how others see you, how do you see yourself? Psychologist, author and Stanford Graduate School of Business professor Brian Lowery argues that this question is so difficult to wrap our heads around because what we think of as our individual identity is actually a social construction. In this episode, he and Chris take us on a journey exploring the objective vs the subjective self, the performance of identity and how your view of others has a stronger sway than you realize.