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How to Be a Better Human

How to approach the daunting question: who am I? (w/ Brian Lowery)

Sep 16, 2024
In this insightful discussion, Brian Lowery, a Stanford Professor and author of "Selfless: The Social Creation of You," delves into the complexities of identity. He explores how our self-view is shaped by societal interactions rather than being a fixed essence. The conversation highlights the performance of identity and how perceptions shift based on our audience. Lowery emphasizes the importance of meaningful connections and shared experiences in the ongoing journey of self-discovery, challenging listeners to reflect on the relational aspects of who they truly are.
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  • Our identity is a social construction influenced by relationships, highlighting the importance of how we perceive and affect others.
  • The quest for meaning extends beyond personal achievements, emphasizing community engagement and shared experiences as vital for fulfillment.

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The Search for Meaning

The pursuit of meaning in life is a fundamental human concern that intertwines with the concept of identity. Engaging in personal achievement, such as climbing mountains or achieving professional success, often results in a fleeting sense of fulfillment that can lead individuals to question its significance. As success fades, people may grapple with existential questions like 'Is this all there is?' This exploration highlights the need to look beyond individual accomplishments and consider how relationships and shared experiences contribute to a deeper sense of meaning.

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