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#457 - Logan Ury - Hinge's Relationship Scientist Gives Dating Advice
Modern Wisdom
The problem with the spark
The spark is the instant chemistry and connection felt with someone, which many people overly optimize for in modern dating. This reliance on the spark leads to high expectations and quick dismissals of potential partners if the spark is not felt. Research shows that only 11% of people experience love at first sight, and the mere exposure effect suggests that we tend to like things more over time as we become more familiar with them. Therefore, emphasizing the spark can result in missed opportunities for developing genuine connections through deeper interactions and shared experiences.
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