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166. Fantasy bonding - is it love or delusion?
The Psychology of your 20s
The Fantasy Bond
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A fantasy bond occurs when individuals rely on their imagination to create an illusion of connection in a relationship, which is based on idealized perceptions rather than reality. This dynamic often stems from a projection of what one hopes the partner could become, overlooking the actual discrepancies between the imagined and real person. It embodies a partial delusion, where potential and possibilities are emphasized, even if they may never be realized. This tendency arises from a deep-seated desire for intimacy, security, and love, leading individuals to disregard red flags regarding compatibility or genuine interest. Ultimately, the fantasy bond represents a conflict where the romanticized vision of a partner does not align with their true self, leading to an unfulfilling connection.
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