As individuals grow and their priorities change, their values, attitudes, and enjoyments also shift. Psychology explains that people bond over shared experiences, creating a common narrative leading to interpersonal compatibility. Relationships are often founded on shared priorities, mutual connections, and similar interests. The dynamic of friendships evolves from early 20s to late 20s due to shifting contexts like transitioning from university to working life. As priorities diverge, relationships may be impacted, especially when individuals take away different lessons and values from shared experiences. This evolution is a natural part of growing up and should not be seen as a fault but as a part of personal growth.
This week on the show we deep dive into why we outgrow our friendships as we enter our 20’s. We often have a romanticised idea that friendships last a lifetime, but during this decade we realise that it’s a lot more nuanced. We explore the main factors behind the friendship “fizzle”, why it’s a normal part of growing up, how we can handle the emotions that come along with and learn to value solitude and be selective when it comes to our friendships. Listen now!
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