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Abandoned by a Narcissistic Father with Dr. Lily Dunn

Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani

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Beware of Future Faking in Narcissistic Relationships

In narcissistic relationships, individuals engage in future faking by making grand promises of fulfilling desires to keep the other person emotionally invested. This behavior leads to a continuous cycle where the narcissist keeps changing the expectations, similar to a slot machine effect. Despite occasional delivery on promises, the underlying hope and desire for the elusive fulfillment persist, trapping the individual in the relationship longer than they should. The belief in potential change or fulfillment creates a powerful pull, often disregarding the detrimental impact on one's well-being. The speaker shares a personal experience of being entangled in this dynamic, showcasing the deep-rooted wish for a significant change, even in dire circumstances, and the realization that an external perspective, like from the speaker's brother, was crucial in breaking the cycle.

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