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Abandoned by a Narcissistic Father with Dr. Lily Dunn

Sep 7, 2023
Dr. Lily Dunn, brilliant author, shares her experience of being abandoned by her narcissistic father who joined a cult. They discuss the emotional impact and financial responsibilities left behind, as well as the dark side of the cult and her father's vulnerability to scams. The chapter also explores the concept of 'future faking' in narcissistic relationships and the long-lasting effects of having a narcissistic parent.
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Quick takeaways

  • Dr. Lily Dunn discusses the profound impact of her narcissistic father's abandonment on her relationships and longing for a father figure.
  • Dr. Dunn reveals her father's manipulative behavior known as future faking in narcissistic relationships, where false hopes are given to maintain attachment.

Deep dives

The Impact of an Absent Father

Dr. Lily Dunn discusses the profound impact her father's abandonment had on her and her family. He left when she was six years old to join a cult and lived a self-centered life without regard for their well-being. This led to a sense of longing and heartbreak, as she desperately craved her father's love and attention. She shares how this absence shaped her relationships with men, often seeking older partners and longing for a father figure.

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