The Toxicity of Criticizing Long-Term Partners

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In long-term relationships, we are often encouraged to criticize our partners, which is toxic. Successful relationships involve cheering for your partner and having each other's backs. It's important to support and uplift our partners, rather than tearing them down. Having someone who believes in you and helps you overcome your mistakes is a superpower.

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(00:00) – Introduction
(09:01) – Why marriages fail
(30:32) – Sex and fetishes
(39:49) – Breakups
(1:05:35) – Johnny Depp and Amber Heard
(1:25:36) – Complicated divorce cases
(1:32:22) – Cheating with the nanny
(1:34:39) – Relationship advice
(1:43:20) – Cost of divorce
(2:05:11) – Prenups
(2:19:33) – Cheating
(2:27:17) – Open marriages and threesomes
(2:40:05) – Sex and fighting
(3:05:00) – Kevin Costner’s divorce
(3:14:44) – Lying
(3:22:12) – Productivity
(3:30:06) – Jiu Jitsu
(3:38:38) – Sex, love, and marriage