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The Science of Making (and Keeping) Friends

A Slight Change of Plans

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The Liking Gap: Why People Tend to Like Us More Than We Think

There is a liking gap that exists between our expectations of how much people like us versus how much we think they like us/nPeople tend to like us more than we think/nBelieving that you are likable and lovable is a self-fulfilling prophecy and brings out your best traits/nIf you believe you will get rejected, it will bring out your worst sides/nPeople may act in harmful ways in friendships because they think people don't care about them.

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