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The Arc of Love - Happily Divorced

Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

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Navigating Guilt and Resentment in Relationships

Guilt often emerges in relationships when one partner realizes the pain they have caused the other, leading to a cycle of self-blame and emotional turmoil. Individuals frequently struggle with the intensity of their own emotions, particularly guilt and resentment, and how these emotions affect their perception of self and relationships. Recognizing that feeling guilt does not equate to owning all the pain inflicted is essential. There is a tendency to internalize emotions, resulting in a powerful undercurrent of sadness and resentment that can be challenging to navigate. Communication about emotions, such as sadness and resentment, is crucial in relationships, as misunderstandings or lack of expression may lead to further resentment from partners. Engaging in dialogue about these feelings can potentially alter responses and contribute to a healthier emotional dynamic within the relationship.

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