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405. Anatomy of an (almost) School Shooter | Aaron Stark

The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast

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Bond Formation, Protest Behavior, and the Toxicity of Pity

Severe betrayal and rejection can lead people to avoid forming bonds with others. Research shows that children separated from their parents go through intense protest behavior, which decreases over time but resurfaces sporadically, creating a barrier to reestablishing contact. Individuals who have experienced deep betrayal may test others to see if they can break the bond, as seen in borderline personality disorder. The toxic nature of pity can be demoralizing, causing individuals to feel like a project or an activity rather than a respected person deserving of genuine engagement and discussion.

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