
How to Get Motivated Even When You Don’t Feel Like It
The Mel Robbins Podcast
Promoting Behavioral Reinforcement Through Awareness
Awareness plays a crucial role in modifying behavior, as it allows for reflection on actions taken or not taken. Focusing on incremental achievements, like a daily 30-minute walk, enhances positive behavior through deliberate acknowledgment of feelings associated with that action. This two to three-minute reflection helps solidify the positive experience, promoting a sense of accomplishment. Conversely, when encountering setbacks, such as failing to complete a task like updating a resume, an awareness approach discourages self-blame and shame. Instead, individuals should examine the reasonableness of their goals and the motivations behind them without rushing to fix the situation. This reflective practice can reveal whether the drive to complete a task stems from a desire to avoid negativity rather than a genuine interest, which often leads to a cycle of negativity. By cultivating awareness of one's reactions and motivations, individuals can break this cycle, leading to more natural and effortless behavior change over time. Recognizing these patterns facilitates a healthier relationship with personal goals, allowing for growth without the weight of negativity.