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201 - This Book Changed How We Think About Performance and Anxiety

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The Goal of Life: Texture Over Happiness

The central concept discussed in the book is about identifying with our compensatory selves and reactive minds, which creates a bigger but not truer or happier self, leading to dissatisfaction. Building up defenses eventually imprisons us, leaving us feeling cut off and irritable. The act of committing, such as to a relationship, having kids, or getting a dog, is seen as setting oneself up for potential heartbreak. The speaker believes that the goal of life should be texture, not happiness, arguing that pursuing happiness alone would prevent one from committing to meaningful relationships or experiences.

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