Changing your breathing on purpose can reduce stress and redirect your attention away from rumination.
Repeating the phrase 'inhale my friend, exhale my friend' can create a pause or interruption in negative thoughts.
Practicing the 'inhale my friend' technique during non-stressful times can make it more readily available during stressful moments.
Regularly practicing self-talk techniques is like working out and building strength for when you really need them.
Using the 'inhale my friend' technique can be helpful in dealing with stressful moments with children.
Taking one breath using the 'inhale my friend' technique can be effective in difficult moments.
The 'inhale my friend' breathing technique can be used in various contexts, such as during breakfast or in response to someone crying or screaming.
Another technique discussed is not mentioned.
Lots of us hit the gym in January to get fit - but should we also be exercising our minds in preparation for tough times? A daily "self-talk workout" might be just as beneficial as squats and push-ups, says Seattle University psychology professor Rachel Turow.
By practicing simple self-compassion exercises each day - such as breathing techniques - we can prepare for future challenges when we'll need those tools to help us tackle crippling self-criticism or paralyzing sorrow.