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2105: Why We Feel Lonely and What (Not) to Do About It by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Understanding Loneliness & The Human Experience

Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

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Loneliness: No one sees the world through our eyes

Loneliness can arise when we realize no one sees the world from our perspective, triggering a sense of being alone. Our minds seek explanations and often shame steps in with self-blame, suggesting we deserve to be lonely. Shame weaponizes loneliness by making us feel unworthy of connection. To distinguish loneliness from shame, recognize that loneliness is a natural human experience, while shame adds unnecessary self-criticism. By acknowledging that loneliness is part of being human, we can shrink the power of shame and embrace solitude as a transformative experience.

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